I bet you read that title twice.
I wrote "whining" not "winning."
Sure, the words look a bit alike at first glance, but their meanings are polar opposites.
"to complain, usually often and loudly"
"to be successful and achieve victory"
When writing your life story, I suggest winning over whining.
Even though whining is easy to do, it turns your focus away from your goals. And let's face it, complaining doesn't move you forward.
A winning attitude means you are looking at the finish line with determination.
It's a 'no-matter-what' perspective that is very powerful.
Write your life story like the winner you are.